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Prostate is one of the most important endocrines in the male body. It is sometimes called male G-point and it is located inside the pelvis and its massage brings deep and intense sexual feelings unknown to most men. Its stimulation has also healing effects. It helps prevent prostate cancer and its hypertrophy and any related erection issues. It brings men the deep physical and mental relaxation and ability to develop accepting roles. Despite all benefiting effect of the Tantric massage, only a few men have ever tried it. What are the taboos related to the prostate massage, how it works and why is it also difficult to ask your partner to do it for you? Read more below.
Prostate massage begins on the outside as a massage of a perineum (located between the scrotum and anus) and continues with a direct massage through the anal hole using a soft massage oil or a lubricant. For hygienic reasons an elastic latex finger cot is used for the internal part of the massage. Prostate massage obviously does not happen quite on its own; a part of it is a sensual tantra full body massage during which the body relaxes perfectly and gets ready to accept more. During the massage there is an intimate and trustful atmosphere without any embarrassment or shame. Prostate massage should never be painful because the masseur works carefully and slowly and gets the whole bottom and anus ready at the beginning. Only when the whole area is nicely relaxed I will continue with direct stimulation. Prostate massage is best received in a horizontal position belly down but it can be also be a part of a massage more than one time, for example together with an intimate massage of lingam also in position on your back. Gay Tantric Prostate massage is unique by the fact I, the masseur take on an active role and give you the feeling you can fully rely on my hands and forget everything else. It is advisable to let your body lead the massage and express yourself orally if you like. For example there are individual cases of people preferring to get on their knees for a while or move their bottom.
Many men worry that enjoying prostate massage means they have homosexual tendencies. In reality, the two are completely unrelated.
For some men, prostate massage offers an opportunity to experience a different dynamic during intimacy. It can be a way to let go of control, explore vulnerability, or simply enjoy a different role. These feelings are entirely normal and do not define your sexuality. They simply reflect the fact that people can enjoy different experiences and dynamics within a healthy sex life.
For others, prostate massage is a private interest they may feel embarrassed to discuss with their partner. Much of this hesitation comes from outdated taboos or concerns that their partner might react negatively or feel uncomfortable.
Good hygiene is important when performing a prostate massage. Using a finger cot or disposable glove is recommended, and most people require no special preparation unless they experience irregular bowel habits. It is also advisable to avoid foods that may cause excessive gas beforehand to make the experience more comfortable.
Another common concern is that a partner may not feel confident about how to perform a prostate massage correctly. If you are new to prostate massage, it can be beneficial to first experience it with a qualified therapist, such as during a tantra massage. This can help you understand what feels comfortable and enjoyable, making it much easier to communicate your preferences with your partner. Open, honest communication is always encouraged and can help both partners feel more relaxed and confident.
As with all the good things in life it sometimes happens that we are simply not prepared yet and our experience is quite what we expected. In response we often close up and are no more ready to try again.
Subconsciously we try to prevent any more disappointment. A prostate massage is a highly sensitive issue and sometimes it happens that the first experience is not what it could have been. You can blame many fears and unconscious taboos and so it is necessary to learn to accept the massage properly. In most cases it works right from the start and in others small steps are needed to proceed to gain trust with your masseur and get rid of any worries and give your body space to accept new feelings. If you persist a prostate massage becomes and ecstatic and deeply relaxing experience. Experiences of many men confirm that the windy road is definitely worth it. A good prostate massage is a healing way to accepting and deeply hidden parts in you.