A lingam massage is a tantric sex practice focused on massaging the Thallus (male genital organ). Unlike your average sensual massage where you are simply masturbated at the end, my gay tantric lingam massage involves not only massaging and stroking the thallus but also incorporate more advanced techniques, including the testicles, perineum, and the prostate (aka the Sacred Spot) as well. The lingam massage isn't about having one orgasm and being done. Instead, it's about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will become waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage. Yes, multiple orgasms aren't just for people with clitorises!
Lingam is the Sanskrit word for the male genital organ, and loosely translates to "wand of light." In tantra philosophy, we approach the lingam from a place of the utmost love and respect, the same way we approach the yoni (female genital organ). The yoni massage might be considered the equivalent of the lingam massage, just performed on people with yonis. When I bring you pleasure through your "wand of light," you are filled with that same energy or light in a conscious exchange of energy in giving and receiving pleasure.
A big part of sacred sexuality is learning to love the thallus and not be afraid of it. Many men I work with are still not totally comfortable with handling a man's Thallus. If that is the case for you, take some time to reflect on any negative impressions you may have inherited from your parents or your culture.
Tantric Lingam massage is a practice that truly honours the thallus and those who have them. We do it to give them pleasure. There is also a tremendous amount of sexual energy or chi in a person's thallus, and learning how to stimulate and circulate it is very powerful. When I went to Germany to study tantra and yoga, I was shocked at first to see statues of the Shiva lingam that represented the God Shiva. For most people, it represents a state of meditation. But for ancient tantric practitioners, this held a secret meaning: that this powerful God energy was in the lingam, which was thought to contain the most masculine essence concentrated in one place.
Think of it this way: Sacred intimacy is about approaching your partner's body as a temple and their lingam is most holy place of all.
A common misconception amongst clients is that one need to have a strong erection during this massage for it to be successful. It is not the case. The nerve endings responsible for sensation and pleasure are located at the surface of the skin, mostly at the gland, and are connected to the brain. You can feel the same intense stimulation wether you have an erection or not. You do not need to have an erection for this massage to be successful. During the lingam massage it is normal to have moments or excitement as well as moments of relaxation. In addition I have disposable or stainless steel constriction rings available, which I'm more than happy to use on you, just let me know in advance so I have them with on the day. The constriction ring can help you archive an erection and keep the same for longer periods than normal.
1. Premature ejaculation. There is no shame here. We will continue the massage gently, and you may feel excited again. In fact you could be a lucky client who will have a second orgasm at the end of the session.
2. You ejaculate before the end of the session - We will continue the session until the end, massaging the rest of the body.
3. Tranquil conclusion of the massage without orgasm
4. Stimulation to the point of no return, then orgasm without ejaculation (e.g. with big draw).
5. Stimulation to the point of no return, then orgasm with ejaculation.
Whichever the outcome your massage will be equally an relaxing, yet exciting experience.
You will be massaged with a premium massage oil from Biotone, which is completely unscented, water dispersible and stain free. You can also request me to add a 100% pure aromatherapy essential oil to the base oil. Should you opt to include aromatherapy in your session, I will help you select the most suitable oil for your needs.
This massage is performed in a folding (but very comfortable) massage mat, which I will bring with me. Please inform me beforehand in case you don't have the floor space available for the massage mat, which is 200x90 cm.
60 min £250
90 min £350
120 min £450
180 min £650
During the longer sessions the actual lingam massage can be extended as well as giving greater attention to your whole body. I can also offer continuous on and off stimulation of the lingam while massaging all other body parts.